Wednesday, April 2, 2014

B IS FOR BELIEF

I had a great call with a very good friend and respected colleague this morning. He’d sent me an email commenting on my first blog challenge offering, so I picked up the phone and gave him a call. As always, it was great to hear his voice.

Over the course of almost an hour, we talked in detail about the overall economic climate here in Cottage Country. We also spoke of what our hopes and aspirations are going forward. From a market perspective, it’s always interesting here as the seasons change and the big lakes finally open. It's a very exciting time.

LOOK MA... NO HAIR!
Taken: June 1996
As we chatted this morning, we absolutely and unequivocally agreed (that for a goal to be truly achievable) not only do you have to be happy, there has to be belief.

Belief in objective facts of what you're working toward rather than subjective opinions of others. That, and the sheer belief in your journey. Those are the true keys.

Which brings me to my boys. In the moment the shutter snapped, you can tell that they were both very happy. I can assure you (in this moment) they personified BELIEF. 

It was the first time I'd ever convinced them that they should let me shave their heads. They trusted me but they had questions. Oh my goodness, there was doubt, not to mention that they were definitely a couple naysayers. In the end, my well thought through explanation as to why they should take such a drastic step for change resulted in their consent to move forward.

Do you want to know what the most amazing part of my story is?

It took place in my kitchen this past Sunday afternoon. I fired up my set of clippers and I shaved Goob's head. Yup, eighteen year later he still has the solid belief that this look is great. 

Know what? He's absolutely right... They still both embrace the approach and it still looks perfect.

Guess some things were just meant to be!


10 comments:

  1. Nice memories and blog, love the name! Look forward to more!! Jan @ http://mermaidsandcashmere.com/bee-balm-aka-wild-bergamot/

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    1. Thanks Jan. I'm heading over to you for a visit now! Cheers....

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  2. What a happy post and wow those guys are so cute in their Burr haircuts. Bet they are just as cute all these years later, too. Fun post for the Letter 'B'. Visiting from the AtoZ List.
    Sue at CollectInTexas Gal

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    1. Thanks Sue... and Thank you for the introduction to Betsy. You have a new follower! I can't wait to keep reading :)

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  3. They're so adorable! I know, this is going to sound really pervy, but I just love little boys - I have two of my own, as you know, and there's something so adorably awkward and bear-cub-like about them.

    Do you know how much money you're saving, shaving your kid's head? It' no wonder The Wealthy Barber is wealthy...

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    1. Oh Cathy, there is something about our boys. As a Mama, I know you know what I mean.

      Not gonna lie... The head shaving thing totally started as a cost cutting measure. Maybe "C" should be for Credit Cards!

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  4. That photo looks so current.

    I am Urthwild from http://www.darknessbeckons.com

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  5. Shared both your posts on my twitter @darknessbeckonz
    I am Urthwild from http://www.darknessbeckons.com

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